Saturday, December 31, 2005

Happy New Year


Just a quickie to wish everyone a very happy new year! I hope that 2006 holds many wonderful experiences for you and your families.

2005 was a rollercoaster year that (as usual) went by so quick. I finished working at Bustan and discovered that being a Mum is darn hard work. My family came to visit, and Laith and I visited Oz. The end of the year saw a new addition to our family and now here we are new years eve. Too exhausted and too tired to do anything too social so it looks like a family night out for dinner and then home for a more personal NYE celebration.

All the best, and see you ... next year!

Friday, December 09, 2005

Update Lujayne and Laith


All is well here in the land of “Laith and Lujayne”. This photo is of Lujayne stepping out on her first shopping expedition (yes I did go a bit mad on pink things when I found out we were having a girl, and the sales were on at the time so that is my excuse!!).

I have decided to lend Lujayne to the Armed Forces as I am sure the whole war on terror would cease if Lujayne subjected them all to the kind of sleep deprivation she is inflicting on her family. She is a big feeder and is awake and screaming to be fed every 2 hours. Then once she is tanked up she decides it is nicer to be rocked / walked around etc rather than be placed in a crib … so the screaming starts – this girl knows how to get what she wants, especially at 3am!

Meanwhile Laith has discovered that it is easier to be naughty when mummy or daddy has Lujayne in their arms as they can’t yell so loud or they can’t move as quick to catch me. Let’s just say he is pushing the envelope …

All in all we are well, TG.

Mum leaves for Dublin next week but we will see her back for a quick visit mid January. How I will cope without her I just don’t know.

The other photo is of Laith and Matez (a friend’s son who came to play).

Sunday, November 27, 2005

Welcome Lujayne Al Abri


On Wednesday 16th November at 12.35pm we welcomed Lujayne Al Albri to this crazy mixed up world of ours. She was born by caesarean section weighing 4.220kg (9.3 lbs), head circumference 37cm and length 53cm.

Not far from her brother who weighed in at 4240kg and 38cm HC, not sure about length but definitely a little longer.

Laith has been pretty good with his new sister … so far … so fingers crossed that will continue. She is a bright bub and has lungs on her that any opera singer would die for!

Ali was there for the operations and took Lujayne off for her first check up. He was great! here is the proud dad when we got back to the room.


Mum was also on stand by and assisted with her first bath.


We came home from hospital last Sunday and have had a rollercoaster week, the usual ups and downs of a newborn in the house (lack of sleep being the main challenge).

Sorry it took a while to get these photos out to you.

Lujayne has a very strong personality and she is already bossing me around.


Lujayne - it's meanng in Arabic is "silver", and as she is precious and our 2nd we thought this a very fitting name.

Be back with more updates soon.

(More photos can be seen by clicking on the “My Photo Album” link on the right hand side of this page. If the thumbnail does not show the picture just click on the icon and the picture will show. Sorry I have not done much editing so you’ll have to scroll through).




Monday, November 14, 2005

Mum's Visit and Eid




Well my Mum is here and she has been enjoying her time with Laith (and of course us!). She came early as at the time I was going to have a caesarean on the 1st but as it works out we have delayed the c-sect in hope of a “natural labour” but … well that’s a whole other blog entry. Lets just say we are 40 weeks + 3days and still waiting!!


We had a quiet Eid as we did not want to travel out to Nizwa (Ali’s home town) which is about 2 hours drive inland. So we visited the family in Muscat and also had Ali’s brother staying with us. It was quiet but nice. Laith liked his Eid presents too.
The photo is of Laith and his cousin Mohammed.

The weather is getting cooler – yippee. All is well and we look forward to the arrival of bub#2 this week.

Be back in touch later…

Wednesday, October 26, 2005

First Cloth Nappy and Wipes - made by me!


NAPPY
Ok, now before you start laughing, please remember this is my first attempt to make a nappy! This is a double fleece with terry soaker and flannelette inner. It was supposed to fit Laith but as you can see it is a bit small and the hook and loop (Velcro) is poor quality so it is easy to undo with a bit of movement.

What went wrong … well I did not trust the fleece too much (I got it here and was not sure of the quality) so I also placed a terry layer in between the double fleece which made it too bulky. I should have sewed the hook and loop on before putting the nappy together as once it was together with all the layers I could not get it through the machine (2 broken needles). I am also new on the over-locker and this takes a little mastering so hopefully next one will be a bit better. Wings needed to be larger. Oh, yeah and pink not the best choice for a boy but here in Muscat you have to take what you can get in terms of materials etc (no spotlight here ladies and gentlemen).

So I will go back and adjust the pattern and try another. Mum is bringing a proper pattern and materials with her so that should make a difference (mind you what is the saying … a good artist never blames his tools!!).

WIPES
These are simple flannel and terry wipes. Again I am new to over-locking and the corners are a bit of a bugger, but hey practice makes perfect.

Well, that’s it folks, my first attempt to make cloth nappies. Tomorrow is another day (17 days and counting …., lets remember that Laith was a week overdue!).

More pictures (because I know you are dying to see more with Laith as a model!) are available if you click on the photo album link on the right hand side of the Blog page.

Update on Life in Oman

Bumping Around...

Just thought a quick update was in order.

Last few weeks have just flown by and I can’t believe my Mum is arriving on Sunday.

We have had a good Ramadhan so far and each Thursday we have been having Iftar and dinner at one of Ali’s family. Last Thursday it was our turn, I was shattered on Friday.

Suddenly my “bump” is more like a massive boulder attached to my tummy. I find getting through doors, passing by tables etc a strategic movement. If your bump doesn’t get it then you can be assured your bum will!


Laith has been at home this week as he has a cold but still manages to enjoy his home time especially his Play-Doh. He is awaiting Grandma Didi’s arrival (so we can have cake … oh and to see her too!!), and the arrival of his sister (again he expects cake for new visitors … ummm honey this “visitor” is staying).

My cousin Tara in Switzerland is finally on Skype so now so we can chat more often, its just such a great thing and the line is so clear. Come on everyone else, get onto Skype to we can chat more.

I am taking a huge leap into the “world of cloth nappies”, yep me (!) a devoted disposable user is going to try cloth. In fact I have even got the machine out and starting sewing. When the first model is finished I’ll post a pic for you. These days it is not all the soaking etc that our Mum's had to do (Bless them!), its all drypailing and straight into the washer. Did you know it can take 500 years for 1 disposable to decompose fully!!! yikes.

Here is an example of a "modern cloth" nappy...(the first pic is one of Erica's )http://www.ericanappies.com.au/store/index.php?main_page=products_new&zenid=d304cef31cf119150f6c13c1456fb255



Hope all is well in your part of the world. Stay tuned for the impending arrival of Laith’s sister.

Hugs and Luv XOXOXOX

Saturday, October 15, 2005

De-stress with bubble Wrap


De-stressing with Bubble Wrap

A friend of mine sent me this site last week and I just had to add it for you all.

When you need to de-stress, burst a sheet of bubble wrap! Just click here ... lots of fun, there is even a manic mode for those super stressful days.

http://users.adelphia.net/~venezian/bubblewrap1.swf

Happy Popping Folks.

The Family Were Here




(For more photos click on the link to MY PHOTOS on the right hand side bar)

Well it was a super short but fantastic visit. Laith had been waiting for Aunty Sharon, Uncle Silvio and Uncle Colm to come so we could have cake (as promised by his mum!!). He was so excited to have some new company in the house and especially liked the new gifts (what child doesn't) and new big boys to play Thomas the Tank Engine with. Silvio and Colm got into creating a great new track which Laith loved but I have to say was crushed within a week as there was not enough of a turning circle for him in the middle!


We had a great short all inclusive tour of Muscat including the souk, mosque, and drive around town. On the first evening we went off to have an Arabic style meal, sitting on a raised platform and munching on all sorts of goodies while the others smoked their Sheesha.

it seems that Sujata's (our helper) dahl was a big hit so Sharon will have to try and reproduce it when she gets home! and I think my cheesecake (as promised to Laith) was a hit too.

I was so upset to se them go but I would not have traded the 2 days for anything and Laith is still telling everyone who will listen about Uncle Colm, Uncle Silvio and Aunty Sharon!

So now we have my Mum's visit to look forward to.

Monday, October 03, 2005

Laith goes to school!



Last month Laith started “school” (well it’s nursery or in Oz they would say kindergarten, but we call it school because that is what he calls it!!). Anyway it was a big decision on my part to send him as I felt 2 years and 2 months was a little early but we found on our holidays that he loved going off to Kids Club on the ship and in the hotels so maybe it was time for some more social interaction. There are not as many “mother’s groups” here so his lack of little play mates was a concern.

After interrogating 4 nurseries I decided to go for this one as he has a lovely Omani teacher, Nasima, and she has a small class of 6 who only go 3 days a week so I liked the intimate environment. Then he mixes with the other classes for playtime and snack-time etc. So every Sat, Mon and Wed, Ali takes him on the way to work and drops him off at 8am and then I collect him at 12 noon.

Day 1 was awful! He had been to visit the nursery a few times when I was doing his paperwork and he was excited to go, but me …. I was not ready!! Yep, the crying started in the shower!! I put it down to pregnancy hormones, well that’s my excuse anyway! The plan was I would stay with him for 2 hours for the first few days to ensure he settled in but when we got there he just ran off to play and did not look back. Meanwhile I had to leave the play area to have another cry – useless! So I decided it was best for me to leave him to it and just go. Well a month has passed and he just loves school, in fact most days he is hurrying Dad along to get going!! (Except the one day when Uncle Col, Aunty Sharon and Uncle Silvio were here!) and I love the three mornings of peace, well at least for another month until bub arrives.

The photo is of Laith’s first day.

I Love My Wireless!!!

Love my wireless!!!

I just had to put “pen to paper” about our wireless set up… I LOVE IT!!! Earlier this month I decided that I wanted to be able to work on the laptop in any room and not be tied to the study so I decided to look into wireless. Now for you Aussies, this is old hat but over here it’s not sooooo big. After a rocky start I got the router to work upstairs but when I went downstairs I had a very weak signal, something to do with all the concrete in these houses. So off I went back to the computer store to hand over more money for another access point. I won’t bore you with the drama I had getting it connected but in the end I paid a nice computer guy to come to the house and set it up. For all his troubles and about 1.5 hours work it came to the pricey sum of RO 13 (including the network port for the PC), yep only AUD $40 not bad heh? (Except the router and additional access point cost RO 80 – AUD$260, I am sure you can get that cheaper in Oz as I only had the choice of one brand!).

So now I can take the laptop into bed and surf the net, check my emails, talk on the Skype (by the way what happened to you slacko’s who were going to look into it so we could talk for free???) and update my Blog!!!!

Just had to share my joy…. You know it’s the simple things in life that get ya!!!

(Two Blogs in on week … unheard of!!!)

Friday, September 23, 2005

photos from holiday

Sri Lanka
Laith and the Monkeys..not too close honey!!!
Sigriya Rock - taken by Ali

Elephant Farm (on the river and then watching them go back to the farm)

Picture of the Tea Trees from our hotel (a woring plantation)

Singapore

The Zoo

SuperStar Virgo

where to?

Did you know my favourite book is Thomas .. Oh and I'll have Juice please.

Singapore from our balcony on arrival.
Kuala Lumpur

The train to KL / Ali and Laith in Sunway Park


Thailand

Our Villa private plunge pool

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Our Summer Holiday July/Aug 2005

After months of changing our minds about where to go for our summer holiday we finally managed to compromise and come up with a suitable itinerary (bearing in mind I would be 25 weeks pregnant at the time).

So here is a brief overview of the fabulous holiday we had.

SRI LANKA

We left the deadly heat of Muscat for Sri Lanka arriving in Colombo 22nd July at 5.15am – never a good look! What you need to know about Sri Lanka is that although it is a small country and the distances don’t seem too far on a map in real life it takes hours to get anywhere as the roads are so bad e.g. a bad journey like that between Dambulla and Kandy of 77km can take 3 hours! From Colombo we headed straight out of the city to Dambulla about 150km inland. Our resort was fairly eco-friendly but Ali was shocked that there was no TV! The Culture Club Resort http://asiatours.net/srilanka/hotels/cultureclub.html was filled with animals so Laith loved it, especially the chipmunks and rather large lizards. Ali headed off to Sigiriya Rock for the afternoon but there was no way I was even going to attempt to climb it, stairs or no stairs! It was a fortress for one of the rulers, and also a harem of sorts. It is known for its amazing engineering marvels… probably a bit lost on me.


Next day we headed off to Kandy and stopped en-route at Dambulla Caves, a series of caves uses as temples for Buddhists. Now, nowhere did it mention there were over 100 steps to climb so as you can imagine by the time we got to the top I was shattered! The monkeys run wild and of course I was only concerned about Laith getting bitten and contracting rabies … temples…oh yeah, nice click-click-click.. Can we go now!

Kandy is a large city, in fact our housemaid Sujata is from Kandy so she had told us a little about it. Not really much to see and do there, another temple, the botanic gardens and really that was about it. We stayed at Earls Regency Hotel http://asiatours.net/srilanka/hotels/earl which was nice and located up on a hill overlooking the river. Laith was keen to have a swim in the pool but by the time we got there the rain poured, nevertheless they swam and as a result the next day Laith had a cold … good one guys! Anyway we packed a box of tissues and headed off to Pinnawela Elephant Orphanage for the day. When we arrived they were all down bathing in the river so we headed down for some coffee in a café overlooking the river and got a great front row view of all the action. Laith loved this trip and talked about it forever.

From Kandy we took the mammoth journey over to Nuwara Eliya (the high tea country). This trip was 77km but it took us about 4.5 hours in the car from one hotel to the other, it was a shocker. Imagine feeling car sick (still had pregnancy sickness) and having an active 2 yr old in a car for that long. We stopped at a Tea Plantation at the top of the high country and had tea, it was very nice. I was a bit tired and “over it” and stopped Ali from buying more than one little box of tea, my logic being the excess luggage we would have to have on the rest of our trip. BIG MISTAKE, it was the nicest of all teas in Sri Lanka and believe it or not we could not buy it anywhere else!!! I paid for that one! We stayed at the Tea Factory Hotel http://asiatours.net/srilanka/hotels/tea_factory.html which was nice but we had a very windy and cold day so we ended up staying indoors for the afternoon and evening.

Next morning we drove to Colombo, a fairly uneventful city where we stayed for 2 days before leaving. Can’t say we were too impressed with the city and anyway by this time the cold germs were spreading – not a good sign! We stayed at the Hilton http://www.hilton.com/en/hi/hotels/index.jhtml?ctyhocn=COLHITW which is probably one of the best hotels there, certainly their buffet was amazing and excellent quality.

Overall the trip was nice, and Sri Lanka is a beautiful green country but to be honest until the roads are finished (they say another 3 – 5 years) then I won’t be heading back. There is a lot of corruption which is very sad as it seems the money from the Tsunami is not reaching the people the way it should. I am not sure it is such a good idea to do the route we did in such a short time as you end up spending too much time in the car, however for the adventurous there is a small airline to take you between cities. Just to let you know I was able to email the tea place and yes they will deliver to us but wow the overall cost is about 300% more than if bought the damn tea at the time!!!!! (Doh!)



SINGAPORE

We went in and out of Singapore about 4 times over the next 2 weeks, each time immigration staring at my belly and asking me when I was going to deliver (Yep, I was feeling very glamorous considering I was only 25 weeks!). They wont let you in if you are over a certain amount of weeks as they discourage people from going there just to deliver their baby. I really liked Singapore, it was clean, there was enough to do for a short trip and the shops…well…what can I say…amazing.

Highlight would have to be Singapore Zoo which is a fantastic place to go. It also has a little water park / play area for the kids so Laith had a great time and it gave us a chance to rest for half an hour or so. It does take a day to get around, and we were so tired by the end that we could not go to the Night Safari as planned. It is just up from the zoo and you go in the evening at 7pm to see all the animals at night – looked great but we just didn’t have the energy. We went looking around the shops and Ali has some suits and shirts made. My major purchase was a new Digital Video Camera (Panasonic D-snap, fits in the palm of your hand), just love it and take it everywhere now as it fits in my handbag. I loved the supermarkets; yep anything is exciting when you have been living in Muscat which is pretty basic in terms of shopping. We stayed at the Royal Plaza on Scotts http://www.royalplaza.com.sg/ and I would highly recommend them if you want a hotel near Orchard Road and the MRT. One day we went out for a stroll and got caught in a “shower” well it bucketed down (what do they say in Ireland…. Rained Lead Rods???), we took refuge in a Coffee Bean coffee house but still got a bit wet getting home.

Our final night / day in Singapore (on the way back from Thailand) was spent at the Sentosa Resort http://www.thesentosa.com/ on Sentosa Island http://www.sentosa.com.sg/day.htm …excellent! We had limited time so we only managed to go to the evening “light water show” and it was great, really something to be seen. Also on the Island are Underwaterword and a lot of other activities.

STAR CRUISE

We left Singapore aboard the Superstar Virgo for a 5 night cruise which was for the most enjoyable and relaxing part of our trip.
http://www.starcruises.com/Itineraries/Singapore/index.html
After going to our cabin and looking at the “snug” layout we opted to upgrade ourselves to a suite. It was the best money ever spent as the Exec Suite was at the front of the boat with unobstructed views and a very spacious lounge / dining area; a large bedroom with plenty of cupboard space, and a luxurious bathroom. So I was very happy to be able to unpack and stay in one place for 5 nights in a row. The cruise took us to Penang, Phuket, back via Singapore to Malacca and Kuala Lumpur. The choice of restaurants was excellent and the food catered for all tastes. We even managed to have a night out without Laith to the Italian Palazzo which was divine. Laith discovered “kids club” and even though he was just 2 he loved it. He didn’t even give me a second glance as he raced inside to play, play, play! In one of the restaurants they had a separate Kids Buffet and seating area, perfect for little ones and their family! The Spa, the Ice-cream place and the Lounge were all great, just wish we had more time. By this time I had Laith’s cold and was feeling a little off colour but not too bad. We had no sea-sickness although the first night in open seas we did feel like we were on a ship, but in the morning and from that moment on it was plain sailing. I was a bit sceptical about a cruise but I have to say that I would recommend this one to anyone and especially to those with children.

The ports…
Penang was fairly uneventful unless you get into the history of things. It was very hot (too hot) and we ended up taking a short walk and then back to the boat as we were not interested in the shops.
Phuket – we did not get off in Phuket as we would be spending 6 nights there in a weeks time.
Malacca – you could get off and discover Malacca only if you were prepared to then go by coach up to KL (while the ship sailed up there). As I was not feeling the best we decided to stay on board and then get off in Kuala Lumpur.
KL – We took the coach into town. Planned to go to Pretoria Towers but there was too much smog around and it would have been a waste of time so instead we strolled through the shopping malls ...wow again! Good bargains to be had with the exchange rate and picked up some kids clothes and few things for Ali. Again we were coming back to KL so were not too worried about rushing around to do sightseeing.

KUALA LUMPUR
As Laith was really into trains (Thomas the tank Engine is a big hit with him) we decided to take the train from Singapore up to KL. We got first class seats which were comfortable but overall the service is very basic so no Orient Express here folks! The trip took about 6.5 hours but we did get to see the country side and got a little nap in. (Happy to say we got a plane back!!).

In KL we stayed a little out of the city at Sunway. There are two hotels there which are part of huge complex with a large shopping mall (includes cinemas, ice rink, etc) and a HUGE water park http://www.sunway.com.my/lagoon/attract/kalahari.asp. The hotel was Pyramid Tower Hotel http://www.kl-hotels.com/sunway/tower.htm and it was really good for 4 star. The Sunway Resort right next door was fully booked but looked lovely. We spent one full day at the waterpark and did not go into the city as the smog was getting worse. Thankfully we left 24 hours before it became critical and everyone had to wear masks!

PHUKET – THAILAND
Our final destination was Phuket. In the few days before Phuket and after KL I got very sick and had a fever in addition to the dreaded cold. By the time we are at Singapore airport to fly to Phuket I was on my last legs and had to go to the airport doctor and get some medicine. Being pregnant of course you are not supposed to take anything but I felt near death and gave in and took the antibiotics.

Sadly I can not say much about Phuket as we did not leave the hotel. The day after we arrived I was still sick (actually had a fever for 5 days!) and then both Laith and Ali got sick too! So it was off to the doctor and then pretty much bed for a few days.

We stayed at the newly opened Crowne Plaza Hotel http://www.phuket-photos.com/frameme-hotels.php?page=patong-merlin-hotel.htm and it was great. We were upgraded to a Pool Villa and we had our own little plunge pool...very nice. I managed to meet up with John a previous colleague of mine from Ritz Carlton days who had been working there for 3 years at the Banyan Tree … great to see him and catch up.

So that was pretty much it. We returned to Singapore for one last night and then flew home. Overall it was a great trip even though the last week was marred by illness. The downside was that Laith who was 90% potty rained before going on holidays was suddenly back to square one…but that is a whole other story!

Next year??? Well bub#2 will be 8 months old so not sure about the travel ... let’s wait and see.

Friday, July 08, 2005

Birthday Cake Photos



Here is a phot of "the" cake. let's see if I am mad enough next year?

Happy birthday

Hey there,

Well it took me almost a week to recover from Laith's 2nd birthday party, but alas I am back on track now. I think taking on a big family party when your 5 months pregnant in the heat of summer is not such a smart move.

Anyway the important things is that Laith had a good time and loved his cake. Now allow me to elaborate on this cake which I am going to put down to pregnancy madness. I wanted to make it (mad step #1) but the numbers for the party increased the day before and as 17 children were due to come along with about the same amount of adults I decided I needed to double the size (mad step #2 as gave away and threw out over half the cake!). So I scoured the net for ideas and racked my brain about what I could use for cake decoration etc. Being in Muscat you can't just pop down to Myre, Target, Big W or what ever and get a whole range of "theme products" so instead I managed to get a few Winnie the Pooh and a few Mickey Mouse balloons and cups and plates but NOWHERE to be found was Bob the Builder or Thomas the Tank Engine. I'll cut this long story short and say that I ended up making a rather large Bob the Builder cake which turned out ok (photo attached - I hope!) despite the fact that it was furiously hot in the kitchen even with the AC on as we were cooking all day so when I went to frost the cake the icing was melting and smudging etc. I was up until 1am the night before and up again at 5.30am working madly until the 6pm party. WHY you ask, afterall will a 2 year old remember it...Probably not but that why I say I was MAD!

We are in the final stages of organising our holiday, I won't go into details as it will probably jinx it, will update you later.

The summer is HOT, and getting hotter but hey that's Oman. Got to love those A/C's!

Have been trying to get my friends onto Skype so we can talk for free over the computer, so far only Jules is on and we've probably talked more in the past few weeks than we have in years! Have a look at http://www.skype.com and download the free software then you can call other skype users for free or you can call land lines at a very cheap rate (when I was in Oz calling Oman it's usually $1.38 per min but on skype it was .22cents ..Great value).

Anyway 'til next time ....

Friday, July 01, 2005

Just Starting

I was surfing the net looking for some info on Omantel Shares and found a great Blogsite from Muscati and OceanDream and they made it look so easy that I thought I would give it ago. My last webpage took too long to administer so I am hoping this new format will be easy thus encouraging me to keep you all updated with our life in Oman.

I am not going to go on here (I'll save that for the next posts!), and due to the nature of the culture of this country I am not about to be too free with my speech, instead I'll try to stick to simple family and friends stuff.

So here it goes...